spinkicktothejaw: dan, can i ask you something?
danzor x: yep
spinkicktothejaw: do you think anna would be foolish enough to do anything with josh cushing?
spinkicktothejaw: and by anything i mean anything physical
danzor x: nope
danzor x: there's no chance in hell
spinkicktothejaw: really? beyond a shadow of a doubt?
danzor x: yup
spinkicktothejaw: even with the information that she's spent the night over at jared and josh's apartment twice in the past two weeks?
danzor x: i think part of that was sort of because monica was getting on her nerves?
spinkicktothejaw: well yeah, the first time it was
spinkicktothejaw: but on saturday night anna even told me it wasn't a smart decision at all and then she went ahead and did it again that same night :-\
danzor x: hmph she didn't tell me about that, but all the same
danzor x: from what i can see
danzor x: she learned more than enough about josh last year
spinkicktothejaw: you think so?
danzor x: to never want to be with him again
spinkicktothejaw: was she with him last year?
danzor x: oh i meant
danzor x: 'get with'
danzor x: i was never clear on if they were 'together' or whatnot last year
spinkicktothejaw: ahh
danzor x: since i didn't ask
spinkicktothejaw: by get with again does that mean they actually did hook up?
spinkicktothejaw: or do you not know
danzor x: i don't know if they did or not but i doubt it
spinkicktothejaw: well anna claims they didn't
spinkicktothejaw: but she told josh's friend matt that they did in fact hook up
spinkicktothejaw: but she said she said that because she was trying to rally support against him because of how much of an a-hole he was
danzor x: mhm
spinkicktothejaw: i don't know.
spinkicktothejaw: i just see the same signs and behaviors as last year
spinkicktothejaw: and i'm afraid she may fall for his mind games again
danzor x: hm
spinkicktothejaw: especially with him asking her to dinner
spinkicktothejaw: and saying that he was sorry and that he doesn't want a relationship with her, or that's what she said anyways, but then he writes and sings a song for her and leaves flowers on her car windshield one evening/morning
spinkicktothejaw: i just hope she keeps her guard up and realizes what he is trying to do
danzor x: ehhh he's coming on strong :-o
danzor x: last year josh's motives weren't love at all
spinkicktothejaw: umm, yeah, just a bit
spinkicktothejaw: oh?
danzor x: more just trying to get some and anna figured that out
spinkicktothejaw: but did she figure it out too late?
spinkicktothejaw: i was never quite sure about that
danzor x: *shrugs* again i didn't ask, but it really doesn't make sense for her to have 'figured it out too late'
spinkicktothejaw: yeah, i guess not
danzor x: but i mean now that she knows what he is like behind all the games
danzor x: i'm convinced she's above it all
spinkicktothejaw: even though she is super confused about everything right now and doesn't trust herself to make the right decisions?
spinkicktothejaw: and says she isn't going to make the right decisions because she's angry and bitter towards God right now
danzor x: yea i mean
danzor x: i don't think at all that she'd compromise herself
danzor x: like that, i guess i just believe in her
spinkicktothejaw: i wish i could have the same belief and optimism that you do
danzor x: i wish i could share it easily
spinkicktothejaw: does it make me a bad person that i don't know if she would do something like that even though she has said that she'd never do anything with him?
danzor x: i don't think so
danzor x: expecting the worst can sort of keeps you safe
spinkicktothejaw: expect the worst but hope for the best
spinkicktothejaw: i guess i just lost so much trust in her after the whole josh situation last year
spinkicktothejaw: and little josh issues have been popping up since last year
danzor x: yeah
spinkicktothejaw: and it just breaks it down even more so
danzor x: and that's sort of the thing, i mean last year she didn't break _my_ trust which is probably why i'm so blindly optimistic
spinkicktothejaw: right
spinkicktothejaw: and i think that's why i see the same signs and behaviors as last year
spinkicktothejaw: where some other outsiders may not
spinkicktothejaw: and it's almost like it doesn't even register in her brain that she is the one that broke my trust and not the other way around
spinkicktothejaw: because she always says "without trust, what are we?"
spinkicktothejaw: and i'm like, you keep doing things or let things pop up that continually break down the trust that you are supposed to be attempting to get back
danzor x: i think she realizes that she definitely let you down but at the same time
danzor x: like it's almost impossibly hard to build trust again
spinkicktothejaw: oh, i definitely agree with that
spinkicktothejaw: it just seems that after a certain point in time she just stopped trying
danzor x: i feel like she would've gotten worn down by all the effort
danzor x: but ehh i duno
spinkicktothejaw: but you should
spinkicktothejaw: so then you can tell me
spinkicktothejaw: because i don't know
spinkicktothejaw: ha
danzor x: :-P
danzor x: last year since i didn't know josh, and i didn't know any better
danzor x: i wasn't sure whether or not to approve of him
spinkicktothejaw: ahh
spinkicktothejaw: did he hang around a lot?
danzor x: eh maybe weekend nights for a few hours? don't quite recall
danzor x: but i mean now i have a much better feel for what he's made of
spinkicktothejaw: right
spinkicktothejaw: were you ever there when he spent the night in anna's room/
danzor x: tbh, i dunno
spinkicktothejaw: you may not have been
danzor x: i know he was over late but i dont remember if he ever stayed the night while i was there
spinkicktothejaw: but apparently one night he spent the night in anna's room and was trying to talk to her but she was going to sleep and he tried to sleep in her bed but she kicked him out and made him sleep on the floor
danzor x: :p
spinkicktothejaw: but know one obviously knows if that's the case or not
spinkicktothejaw: jarcy and monica just know that they talked for like 3 hours
danzor x: mhm
danzor x: even if some things are the same as last year
danzor x: josh isn't going to be able to win jarcy, me, or her other friends over
danzor x: even last year jarcy didn't like him at all :p
spinkicktothejaw: i'd certainly hope not
spinkicktothejaw: so you don't think jarcy would approve of anna hanging out with him again?
danzor x: nope, she never approved of him
spinkicktothejaw: well that's good. at least jarcy has some wits about her :D
spinkicktothejaw: i asked monica last night if she would ever approve of it
spinkicktothejaw: and she responded with "jason, all i want for my friends, including you, is that they are happy, safe and healthy"
spinkicktothejaw: i was like uhh, way to dodge that question kthx
danzor x: yea winner answer there
spinkicktothejaw: i can totally understand the fact that she has to appear to be leaning more towards anna's side as she lives with anna
spinkicktothejaw: so anna would obviously feel betrayed if monica started siding with me
spinkicktothejaw: and anna isn't exactly on good terms with monica right now as it is
danzor x: yea
spinkicktothejaw: and if anna wanted to try and be friends with him again i could probably overlook that even though it wouldn't be a wise decision at all
spinkicktothejaw: but i mean, she gave him an inch by agreeing to go out to dinner with him and now he is going to see how far he can push the limits
danzor x: i can see how that's very worrying
danzor x: i've been trying and will keep trying to keep her head straight
danzor x: and so will jarcy
spinkicktothejaw: thanks. i really do appreciate it
spinkicktothejaw: because i believe she would listen to you and jarcy and what you have to say moreso than anyone else really
danzor x: i don't think her head needs any straightening yet
danzor x: and i'm hoping it won't
danzor x: haha
danzor x: but we'll be there for her
danzor x: i'm gonna call it a night, study for some test, but i want to let you know i'm more than willing to talk whenever i can
spinkicktothejaw: alright, thanks man. i appreciate it. have fun studying for your test ha
danzor x is away at 11:02:57 PM.