[20:39] Steph Slam: so technically, u would be guilt free as well if u subscribed to my ways of thinking lol
[20:39] DangerDistortioN: no
[20:40] Steph Slam: ys that
[20:40] DangerDistortioN: you only make yourself believe you're guilt free
[20:40] DangerDistortioN: and I'm the kind of person who does not deal with guilt well in any way, shape, or form
[20:41] Steph Slam: hmm but wat is guilt anyway? other than a belief created by the self or man. its a thought, a concept, as equal to making urself think or not think u r guilty - they r all just a collection of conceptions
[20:41] Steph Slam: so is love. so is hate.
[20:41] DangerDistortioN: if only we all subscribed to that
[20:42] Steph Slam: all relative concepts easily adjusted and changed with thought
[20:42] Steph Slam: life is so easy when one does
[20:43] Steph Slam: i must say im impressed with u for staying along in this convo as long as u have. remind me to hug u tightly next time i see u, i do adore intellect
[20:43] DangerDistortioN: that you do haha
[20:43] DangerDistortioN: as long as it's a hug with good intentions 8)
[20:44] Steph Slam: all that i do wit u is in good intensions dear
[20:44] DangerDistortioN: hurrah
[20:44] Steph Slam: so now that we both have diffeerent opinions about this control complex. who is correct?
[20:45] DangerDistortioN: hum
[20:46] Steph Slam: lol
[20:46] Steph Slam: it be so easy to say that either A : ur correct if u never kiss me again, or B: im correct if u do lol
[20:46] Steph Slam: but that would be too easy
[20:47] DangerDistortioN: oh
[20:47] DangerDistortioN: boo
[20:47] Steph Slam: lol
[20:47] DangerDistortioN: i was going to say that
[20:47] Steph Slam: perhaps law of parsimony can work here
[20:47] DangerDistortioN: explain
[20:48] Steph Slam: law of parsimony - explain things in the simplist form, for the simpliest is most often correct
[20:48] DangerDistortioN: well why dont you go first this time
[20:48] DangerDistortioN: since i went last time
[20:48] DangerDistortioN: :P
[20:48] Steph Slam: ?
[20:48] Steph Slam: huh
[20:49] DangerDistortioN: what's your thoughts on so now that we both have diffeerent opinions about this control complex. who is correct?
[20:49] DangerDistortioN: or
[20:49] DangerDistortioN: we could both abstain
[20:49] DangerDistortioN: :P
[20:49] Steph Slam: i hate abstainin
[20:49] Steph Slam: im going to say that it isnt possible to decide who is corect because we r not in person
[20:49] Steph Slam: nd 90 percent of communication is nonverbal
[20:50] DangerDistortioN: i like that answer
[20:50] DangerDistortioN: haha
[20:50] Steph Slam: so therefore until i can determine based on in person, im going to say
[20:50] Steph Slam: that i like the concept of easy in that A: ur correct if we dunt evre kiss agin, and hence r in control, or B: im correct in that u do kiss me again, and we share control
[20:50] Steph Slam: and wat do u say
[20:51] DangerDistortioN: ooh you italicized for empthasis
[20:51] DangerDistortioN: haha
[20:51] DangerDistortioN: or by accident
[20:51] Steph Slam: accident
[20:51] Steph Slam: lol
[20:51] DangerDistortioN: hahaha
[20:51] Steph Slam: lol
[20:51] Steph Slam: so wat do u say
[20:51] DangerDistortioN: you pretty much put my thoughts well enough
[20:51] DangerDistortioN: it depends on what happens
[20:52] Steph Slam: indeed
[20:52] Steph Slam: oo i do enjoy this
[20:52] Steph Slam: im like all hyper happy
[20:52] DangerDistortioN: haha yeah
[20:52] DangerDistortioN: i've really done nothing cept like type this convo out for the past few hours
[20:53] Steph Slam: tho i admit that id prefer to be right! aka - i prefer B to occur, in that i enjoy being correct it would be a victroy
[20:53] DangerDistortioN: well of course you want to be right
[20:53] Steph Slam: and also i dunt like being controlled, id rather share control
[20:53] DangerDistortioN: I want to be right too
[20:53] Steph Slam: lol
[20:55] Steph Slam: out of curisoity and pure cruelty. may i also assume that a small percentage of u named feeling/desire - would prefer i be correct for the simple matter that u get to kiss me again. AND may i point out that i likewise part of me namingly my morality if that exists wants u to be correct so u dunt feel the weight of guilt
[20:56] DangerDistortioN: you can assume what you want
[20:56] Steph Slam: oo come on tel me if that is a correct assumption or not
[20:56] DangerDistortioN: it wouldn't be an assumption if I confirmed or denyed it
[20:57] Steph Slam: ok well then not an assumtion a fact
[20:57] Steph Slam: if it were a fact could u call it true or false?
[20:57] DangerDistortioN: if you deal only in absolutes
[20:58] Steph Slam: lol yes
[20:58] DangerDistortioN: shades of grey are much more preferable
[20:58] Steph Slam: o u sux!
[20:58] Steph Slam: come onnn tell me its ok i like honesty
[20:58] Steph Slam: it was no easy task to write that out
[20:58] Steph Slam: do me the honor of agreeing or disagreeing
[20:58] DangerDistortioN: the honor?
[20:58] Steph Slam: yes
[20:58] DangerDistortioN: what an interesting word to use
[20:59] DangerDistortioN: for someone who believes naught in guilt
[20:59] Steph Slam: oo shush
[20:59] Steph Slam: do me the favor then
[20:59] Steph Slam: u stall to much tell me is it a good or bad t/f assumptin
[21:00] DangerDistortioN: and this is why the internet is a wonderful shield
[21:00] Steph Slam: growl
[21:00] Steph Slam: come on hunni plzzzz
[21:00] DangerDistortioN: wouldn't be fair if I answered that
[21:00] Steph Slam: yes it would
[21:00] Steph Slam: it would be awsometly fair cuz i was ballzy enough to put it out ther
[21:00] DangerDistortioN: what you've been asking similar questions all night
[21:01] DangerDistortioN: lol
[21:01] Steph Slam: its betraying both of our secrets really
[21:01] DangerDistortioN: or the secrets we're venturing
[21:01] Steph Slam: ooo come on tell me
[21:01] Steph Slam: ur killing me id be attakin u in person rite now
[21:01] DangerDistortioN: nyaaah
[21:01] Steph Slam: dunt make me drive ther
[21:02] DangerDistortioN: why should I answer something that comes from pure cruelty
[21:02] Steph Slam: ooooo!!!!!!!!!!!!!
[21:02] Steph Slam: cuz u love me for it
[21:02] DangerDistortioN: haha
[21:03] Steph Slam: hmm...im waiting
[21:03] Steph Slam: i;ve got my keys nearbye it would be no hardshp for me to drive ther nd get the answer outa u in more persuasive ways
[21:04] DangerDistortioN: whats persuasive mean
[21:04] Steph Slam: wat do u think it means
[21:04] DangerDistortioN: the iron maiden
[21:04] Steph Slam: wat?
[21:04] DangerDistortioN: you dont know what an iron maiden is?
[21:04] Steph Slam: no i dunt
[21:05] DangerDistortioN: it's a pretty horrible torture device from the medieval ages
[21:05] Steph Slam: oo lovely, now stop stalling
[21:05] Steph Slam: do u agree wit my assumption or no
[21:05] DangerDistortioN: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Iron_maiden_%28torture_device%29
[21:05] DangerDistortioN: haha
[21:05] DangerDistortioN: you really want the answer to this one dont you
[21:05] DangerDistortioN: fine
[21:05] DangerDistortioN: it's no
[21:05] Steph Slam: no
[21:05] Steph Slam: u disagree
[21:06] DangerDistortioN: yes
[21:07] Steph Slam: sigh
[21:07] Steph Slam: y
[21:07] DangerDistortioN: why?
[21:07] Steph Slam: yeh wat makes u disagree
[21:07] DangerDistortioN: it's my turn why does it matter so much whether or not I answered that?
[21:07] Steph Slam: cuz im curious if im thinking corectly
[21:08] Steph Slam: nd it fun puting u in these sitautions
[21:08] Steph Slam: i jsut truly regret not being in person
[21:09] DangerDistortioN: yeah it's a bummer
[21:09] DangerDistortioN: haha
[21:09] Steph Slam: growl
[21:09] Steph Slam: no really it is
[21:09] DangerDistortioN: well then you couldn't have pretended to get much studying done
[21:09] Steph Slam: hahah
[21:09] Steph Slam: shush i am doing sum