You need to change the following chunks in the following files:
/etc/libvirt/qemu
# VNC is configured to listen on 127.0.0.1 by default.
# To make it listen on all public interfaces, uncomment
# this next option.
#
# NB, strong recommendation to enable TLS + x509 certificate
# verification when allowing public access
#
vnc_listen = "0.0.0.0"
/etc/xen/xend-config.sxp
# The interface for VNC servers to listen on. Defaults
# to 127.0.0.1 To restore old 'listen everywhere' behaviour
# set this to 0.0.0.0
(vnc-listen '0.0.0.0')