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aculver:/usr/local/apache2# ls -l /usr/local/lib/php.ini /usr/local/apache2/modules/libphp5.so
-rwxr-xr-x 1 root staff 10927382 Jun 21 11:08 /usr/local/apache2/modules/libphp5.so
-rw-r--r-- 1 root staff    46069 Jun 21 12:13 /usr/local/lib/php.ini
aculver:/usr/local/apache2# grep php /usr/local/apache2/conf/httpd.conf
LoadModule php5_module        modules/libphp5.so
AddType application/x-httpd-php .php
AddHandler php5_module .php