Here I've compiled a list of interesting points which I know can help move people in a good direction for a brighter future.
4. Evict your inner wussy
a. Show up and kick it's ass. Mentally
5. Build a powerful self image that you love
a. Get a clear picture in your mind and ask yourself is this the image that I want to be, and clarify it over time, making it bigger and clearer
6. Move your frame of reference inside
a. If you make the decisions, and using the tools and people around you to help you achieve the visions you want, you'll be a lot more effective
7. Stop making identity meaning out of external events
a. Instead, "Oh they disapproved of that, fine, who cares"
8. Eliminate failure by learning from it.
a. Stop, look at the experience, and think about what you've learned from it. And then compare the lesson you got, to the price you payed. And I think you'll always realize that the lesson is ALWAYS a bargain.
9. Compare your progress and success only to yourself.
a. Look to win by achieving the outcome you want. If you find yourself comparing yourself to others, stop and look back on how far you've come and win your own race -- More fulfilling.
10. Evolve constantly w/ thinking about it. Always seek the next level and ask yourself 'Whats the next step?"
a. Keep moving to the next level. Ask yourself, ok what's the next step & level and how do I get there?
b. Never get on your soap-box and say "Ahh Im there now"
11. See yourself as "High Status"
a. Build a high status self image. Make it apart of the way you walk through the world. Be a mature man and help others.
12. Stop apologizing
a. Over time, you'll take more responsibility and build stronger personal boundaries.
13. Stop seeking approval.
a. Stop asking people for 'permission' to do things. Stop being clingy emotionally , or psychologically. It wears out your welcome
14. Stop giving approval to get it
a. 'Your so wonderful, If you walked all over me I wouldn’t even care, because you're so beautiful' -- As an example
15. Stop (trying) trading status for approval
a. Most people approach people with a unique strategy -- 'Ill give you everything I have, for just a little bit of attention'
b. Almost NEVER works && counter-productive.
16. Unwind past, present, future…Physical, logical & emotional.
a. Ever met someone who lives in their past? A time that doesn't exist anymore. What about the future? They structure their whole life about trying to not have something happen. And in the process they attract what the thing they were trying to prevent. Or ever try to argue with someone who is injected with emotion?
17. Surround yourself with success -- real life, books, audio, or video -- preferably all of them.
a. Brian Tracy Talks About: The people you surround yourself with you become, because their thinking permeates your mind
b. Napoleon Hill Talks About: Get several sucessful minded people together in a group to help achieve goals.
c. Rather than watching pointless news where youll get virtually no useful information, instead use the time listening or reading beneficial material your interested in
18. Know your path in life and stick to it
a. As Confucius say: "Man who chases two rabbits gets none"