Me: we just broke up 3:56 PM
Frank Josza: Sigh. I hate hearing that 3:57 PM
Me: so what were you telling me about your preferences in women 3:59 PM
Frank Josza: They arent ass varied, and i dont have a 'thing,' and really cant be attracted to someone i dont know. Are you just meh about breaking up? Are you ok? 4:01 PM
Me: oh right ok 4:03 PM
Me: do you have unlimited texting or what 4:03 PM
Frank Josza: Pretty sure i do 4:04 PM
Me: we're really different in lots of ways. she's kind of a friend whore, a "social butterfly" according to herself 4:05 PM
Me: i mean, you know that already. 4:06 PM
Me: she treats strangers really well, but she can be very shitty to the people she's close with. she has really bad PMS/PMDD and she can get really shitty and i've kinda gotten used to it 4:07 PM
Me: the first time she had one of those i broke up with her 4:08 PM
Me: and then we got back together... didn't last long 4:08 PM
Frank Josza: Mmhm. I think youre misappropriating a valid gathering though. I know you dont like it, but theres a reason people drink when grouped. Social grease. 4:08 PM
Me: we got to be really good friends because we talked a LOT, which as it turns out, we talked a lot because she was home all the time and her friends were away in college 4:09 PM
Frank Josza: Are you still friends 4:09 PM
Me: now that they're back she can have fun with them and doesn't really "need me" 4:09 PM
Me: Look I'm glad you guys had fun. I wasn't able to laugh at all the shit you laughed at because I didn't get drunk. 4:10 PM
Me: we've been feeling meh towards each other for a while now though 4:11 PM
Me: even before this 4:11 PM
Me: i don't know if we're gonna be friends. i want to be, but i don't know if i have it in me to get over our relationship so easy 4:13 PM
Frank Josza: Yeah...i know. When people want to get you drunk its to bring you along for the ride, not something malicious. Also, arent you so participating in freel 4:13 PM
Frank Josza: ove and online for the same reason? 4:13 PM
Me: for what reason? 4:14 PM
Me: it's not like i didn't try to get drunk. i tried to leave my alcohol for drinking game but i didn't have to drink much lol 4:15 PM
Me: i took big gulps too, when i had to drink, but even then i had like half of my cup full while everyone else was refilling 4:15 PM
Me: so i mean it's not like i didn't try 4:16 PM
Me: also she thought i was being a jerk when you came 4:16 PM
Me: was i being a jerk to you? 4:16 PM
Frank Josza: Think of drink i smoke. If youre not feeling it, keep going til you do. Also the reason i was speaking of is because all your friends are elsewhere. Nob 4:18 PM
Frank Josza: ody goes online when they hae all the social interactions theey need, do they? 4:18 PM
Me: i guess? 4:19 PM
Frank Josza: Hmm. Well youre a jerk anyway, so i didnt feel like you were aiming. But no i wasnt like, "hes really acting like a jerk." i was like, this guy isnt hav 4:20 PM
Frank Josza: ing a good time. 4:20 PM
Frank Josza: Which you werent were you 4:21 PM
Me: no i mean was i a jerk otherwise... not at the party 4:21 PM
Me: to be honest it was ok til she was like OK IM PRETTY DRUNK and i thought we weren't going there to get drunk since we had to get back and wake up early. 4:22 PM
Me: i mean it was fun until we went outside to play kings i thought 4:22 PM
Me: by then you were all drunk and i wasn't 4:22 PM
Me: so you were amused by shit i wasn't amused by 4:22 PM
Me: i wasn't intentionally not having fun... i don't know 4:23 PM
Me: i'm not much of a party person in general 4:23 PM
Frank Josza: I know exactly what you mean by not intentionally not having fun. But if you know the reason, remedy it next time 4:24 PM
Frank Josza: Lemme ttpe something, dont text 4:24 PM
Frank Josza: Im horribly antisocial and sarcsatic. I hate parties, because forced interaction is annoying; its,metaphorically, a videogame im no good at. Alcohol is 4:30 PM
Frank Josza: easy mode. If someones not playing on easy while everyone else is, thats no fun is it? Because you arent very amiable. You just arent; yes, its obvious. 4:30 PM
Frank Josza: So use sone fucking cheat codes like the rest of us 4:30 PM
Me: heh 4:31 PM
Me: yeah but you aren't really friendly even when drunk.... 4:36 PM
Me: you just didn't look miserable like apparently i did 4:37 PM
Me: i'm not too worried about that party man 4:38 PM
Me: a big reason why i was miserable is because lindsay was apathetic towards me the whole time 4:39 PM
Me: a party that we went to at penn state over spring break i had a lot of fun at and we were a disgusting couple over there 4:39 PM
Me: i thought that's what would happen again 4:39 PM
Me: i thought it was because she was trying to not third wheel you like i told you there 4:40 PM
Me: but it's not 4:40 PM
Frank Josza: Like i said, when you asked whether you were a jerk or not. You were, but its that you seemed miserable that is socially maligned, not that youre a jerk. 4:41 PM
Frank Josza: Sec 4:42 PM
Frank Josza: She wasnt apathetic to you for my sake, (i dont think), it was recursive; circular. She was because of your attitude. 4:43 PM
Me: she was apathetic towards me because of how our relationship was going 4:45 PM
Me: which is what i suspected 4:45 PM
Me: but to make myself feel better i pretended it was because she didn't wanna third wheel you. that's a big part of why i was miserable 4:46 PM
Me: i was asking about being a jerk throughout the day... not at the party 4:46 PM
Frank Josza: I know im talking about the day 4:46 PM
Me: no... she was apathetic towards me before you even came 4:47 PM
Me: like before i even came down to philly this time 4:47 PM
Frank Josza: If her apathy stems from you as a person, and your attitude stems from her apthy, then its circular. 4:48 PM
Frank Josza: 4:49 PM
Me: i don't know what her apathy stems from... 4:49 PM
Me: she's the least predictable and consistent person i've ever encountered 4:49 PM
Frank Josza: You havent encountered many people for living in such a populace city man 4:50 PM
Me: i'm not trying to talk shit on her. i'm just saying 4:50 PM
Me: i've encountered a lot of people. i'm not friends with all of them 4:51 PM
Me: why are you being so defensive about her 4:51 PM
Me: you really don't know her btw 4:51 PM
Me: i'm just telling you why we broke up 4:52 PM
Frank Josza: Sec 4:53 PM
Me: i don't hate her. i hope we end up friends. but she has so many friends that it would be almost meaningless. i like having a few meaningful friends 4:53 PM
Frank Josza: Im not defending her, im offering counterpoint to your point to provoke perspective. If she were texting me in the same fashion, i would take the same n 4:54 PM
Frank Josza: eutral-counter perspective. 4:55 PM
Frank Josza: I do too 4:55 PM
Me: yeah but she wouldn't text you because she doesn't really give a shit 4:55 PM
Frank Josza: Who knows who now 4:56 PM
Me: trust me... if i was into getting high and drunk she would LOVE me 4:56 PM
Me: did she text you? 4:57 PM
Frank Josza: If she asked me if you texted me, what would you have me say 4:57 PM
Me: btw i only said she didn't give a shit because she actually told me she doesn't give a shit 4:58 PM
Me: if she asked you if i texted you, you should tell her that i did 4:59 PM
Me: you can even tell her what i said, but don't make it sound like i'm bitter because i'm not. 4:59 PM
Me: i still love her but don't tell her that 5:00 PM
Me: i've already told her a lot of what i told you though 5:01 PM
Me: except the part where i was trying to get drunk but didn't. lol 5:02 PM
Me: you're basically the only person i can talk to because you "know" us both now 5:04 PM
Frank Josza: This conversation alone has raped all my phone memory. It like freezes when you send a lot instead of one big one(just so you know) 5:04 PM
Frank Josza: Its fine. Id rather you did than didnt 5:05 PM
Me: ok well i guess i'll just talk to you when you get home 5:06 PM
Me: lol ok 5:06 PM
Frank Josza: K 5:06 PM